I was somewhat taken aback to learn to day that Justin Carmical aka JewWario had committed suicide in January.  As I read his wife’s announcement to the community, including his fans from Youtube many thoughts ran through my head.  Many of them absolutely typical I’m sure.  Please indulge me for a few minutes.

You see, I wasn’t a fan of Carmical’s work.  I profess to have never watched an episode of You Can Play This because I’m not a big fan of Japanese games/animation styles however I did encounter him through the work of James Rolfe (aka The Angry Video Game Nerd) and of Doug Walker (aka That Guy With the Glasses).  You see just as we on Realms form communities, many of the early Youtube channel creators along the same theme have been aware of one another and sometimes collaborated.  I heard of Carmical’s death on a post about the AVGN Movie premiere next month.

What struck me is that there is a post describing a situation that I cannot imagine ever wanting to relate.  A human being I love locking themselves in a bathroom and fatally shooting themselves while I talked to them through the door.  Let that sink in for a minute.  Then imagine having to go online and tell the world.  That was Jenny Valentine’s experience and she handled it with a grace I can only wish for.

In the upcoming month I will be sharing with you some reminisces of a variety of people from the Realms to celebrate the 20th anniversary of our game.  I’m going to share a very quick one now.  As a run council leader in the Guild of Druids about 12 years ago or so I found myself counseling people from time to time.  One of these people was a regular who we thought was a pretty heavy drinker.  One night he told me that when he logged out he was going to kill himself.  I don’t know why he chose me, it doesn’t matter.  I took him seriously, not only because of the way he told me but because of the history.  I get a bit nervous calling police.  Calling police halfway across the continent to explain that someone I knew from a chat game on the internet was suicidal was a very strange call indeed.  Today police might be more prepared for that kind of call, 12 years ago it was a strange one, big time.  Through a mix of keeping him talking and asking careful questions I drew enough information out of him to get the police to his house.

I don’t know what ever happened to him.  I want to tell you he lived happily ever after but honestly I don’t know, I sure hope he got the help he needed.

If you or someone you know are feeling hopeless, like there’s no way to make your life better let me share this: it can be a hard road but there is help out there.  I spent a lot of time hiding away from my own problems and it almost destroyed the joy in my life.  I was very  lucky that I finally reached out for help, more than 5 years later I can tell you life is pretty good.

Find someone to trust, find a hand to hold.  The road is long, but you need not walk it alone.

Player retention is something which seems to be on a lot of people’s minds.  I suggest it may be more important than attraction but at the very least they go hand in hand towards creating a healthy player base.  I don’t claim these ideas, this is something I’m adapting from a business article that I read earlier it deals with more universal satisfaction topics rather than delving into game play issues. I think this might be interesting to any organization leaders, immortals or even people looking for a way to better express things that are bothering them.

10. Treat everyone equally

Some players contribute more to the game.  They bring people with them and help contribute to other people’s enjoyment.  Equality isn’t sufficient, fairness is.

9. Tolerate mediocrity (in yourself).

The idea that “A-players” have less desire to play with “C-players” is true, perhaps more in gaming than in the work world.  “A-players” are under no obligation to explain the “big” runs or “hard” mazes.  People do figure these things out by investing time learning simpler mazes in low risk areas and eventually graduate to bigger and better.  These players are under no obligation to teach new players though many do for lots of good reasons.

8. Have dumb rules.

The original article talks about having rules that get in the way of doing their job.  I believe in simple, unambiguous, enforceable rules.  Establish solid principles and derive rules from there.  I don’t just mean laws, I mean things like using “in area ip check” versus “global ip check”.  To me this is a dumb rule … let me leave my characters in Darkhaven who aren’t at all involved in the fight’s outcome online waiting the 4 hours for their tinker tag to rot off online.  This is just an example.  There are lots of little things like this that are irritants for the sake of anti-exploitation or anti-staking.  Let’s put our heads together and come up with better ways of doing business.

7. Don’t recognize outstanding performance and contributions.

The original article says it best “[b]ehavior you want repeated should be rewarded immediately”.

6. Don’t have any fun at work.

In the game context I’m going to say that you can suck all the fun out of your own game if all you do is monotonous things.  When your strategy to bigger and better gear is to gold until someone auctions it, are you having fun?

5. Don’t keep people informed.

I think this one is really prevalent on Realms.  The latest news item is from March 28.  The latest pknews is from April 05.  Today is June 22.  Nuff said.

4. Micromanage.

There’s two sides to this.  The first is telling people what you want done and how to do it.  Some runs have become an exercise in micromanagement … this tendency is not adding challenge to runs, but tedium (again in the name of anti-staking?)  The other side of this is not asking players how to make things better.  I think this happens on a small scale but there are issues lurking about that I recall from the late 90’s.

3. Don’t develop a [player] retention strategy.

To borrow from the original article again here, make a list of players you would not want to lose from your organization or from the game in general.  Think about whether those players are happy.  Ask yourself if you are doing anything to make sure they stay engaged.

2. Don’t conduct retention interviews.

Ok, this isn’t a workplace so retention interviews probably wouldn’t be formal but sit and talk with people before they’re walking out the door because in the game you never know when they’re typing quit for the last time.

1. Make getting started as tedious as possible.

This has been harped on for 20 years.  The wall of text that is help start and the way players learn the game by reading instead of doing … it goes well for the new preauth but then we dump players into the game and say good luck.  I have some ideas about this and to be clear people like Loril work at this tirelessly but I have first hand experience at trying to recruit MMO gamers and their first reaction is “Yeah, too much reading to even get going doing anything”.  These are people who came from BBS gaming too.

 

I thought these 10 points were relevant.  They don’t address everything but I think that they address enough that they were worth adapting for you here.  Cheers!

 

Well!

Last weekend we saw a house put on the market after a conversation that included talking about how housing makes people feel more invested in the game.  People get their own corner and set up their own sect, even if it’s just their alts, they’ve got something that they designed, named and get to take pride in.

Some of us get that feeling in the organizations we’re in but the fact is that organizations have rules about treating their save rooms as your own personal storage and from time to time people drift from organization to organization.  So having your own part of Realms has a special appeal, it’s yours.  No matter where you go or what you do.  Want to leave 50 laundry baskets on the floor?  Go for it!  Yay!

We also talked about the previous record holding 14b coins spent on the last house and how that was a ridiculous sum.  Some people assert that housing is a gold sink.  It’s something that sucks a whack of gold out of the economy and evens things out a bit.  Maybe that’s true.  It certainly does suck gold out.  Somewhere along the line however, it also became a reason to amass gold.  Some people who are golding say they’re doing it to save for a house.  So while it will continue to suck the gold out of the system, it also has become a reason for people to amass every increasing totals.  One nameless “up there” immortal told me the only time they ever golded was after buying their house to pay off their loans from friends.

I think part of the problem is that supply is far lower than demand and that apartments are more or less seen as useless.  You can start a sect, but if you ever upgrade to a house you’ll have to disband your sect and re-create it in order to move it.  I think this has to do with how secthome recall has been coded but I’m talking out of pure speculation here.  IF apartment sects could upgrade to a house somehow, without spending another 500,000,000 gold coins I’d already own one.

In help tsnews it was mentioned that there was some discussion about how to modify apartments, so it’s not as though it’s not on the radar, I’m repeating here a lot of what I said during that meeting.  It would be AWESOME to be able to upgrade and expand apartments and houses without every little thing dinging your house owning non-ordered non-clanned character having to scrape up the glory.  Seriously, if you wanted to tunnel a room to 1 in your house it’d be 80 glory… 80… a room ed is 40 glory for 24 lines…  (note I’m not sure if you have to pay an extra 20 if you want a COLOR ed).  Do I think this stuff should be freebies or gold driven?  No.  You need to earn stuff to feel some pride of ownership (imo) and if it’s gold driven it’s just going to be another reason for people to run level 30 barbarian bots in Coral Depths.  These things could make great quest reward scrolls though, even accepting that someone’s gonna hit traffic and try to sell theirs (if we say 300m per 10 glory using a rename scroll as a guide, do you think anyone’s going to trade 1.2b for a tunnel change scroll?  For a +1000 weight scroll, maybe!).  What’s the other bonus?  If you’re earning these things, you’ve been out and participating in quests and that’s gotta be a good thing right?

I made no secret that I was in on this house.  At any price?  No.  The hammer price on it was 16,500,000,000 gold coins (unless there was a last minute bid I didn’t see) and I chose to step out of the bidding around 15,000,000,000 coins.  I want a house and once I have one my desire for gold will fall off, if I can buy potions and do repairs I have enough, I’ve always been that way.  Gold is not a high score to me.  It’s just a resource that comes and goes.  I see people on traffic all day long looking for stuff and honestly, I’d rather run, it’s the getting not the having for me, but that’s a different rant.  The handful of us who are looking forward to starting a sect together will keep adventuring together and wait for the next little bit of Realms to go up for sale.